I have been having this issue since launch. I actually wrote a post about this 7 months ago, but yet the issue still persists. I have even re-formatted my computer at least 2 times since then, but the issue still happens.
I can not whisper people sometimes. If I right-click their name and whisper, the whisper dialogue will not appear in the chat box. Even if I manually whisper them, and send the message, it will take 10+ minutes to actually send the message to the person.
I have tried this with numerous people, and after about 10 minutes or so, the chat box will then start to cycle through all the people that I have tried to whisper. Here is another thread that shows a similar issue.
https://forum-en.gw2archive.eu/forum/support/bugs/Whispering-Issue
If anyone knows of any solutions, or what might be causing it, let me know. Thanks!
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