Often I just have to go to LA to do some banking or picking up something from Tp or even using it as a short stop before i travel on. Whenever i get into the overflow it doesnt matter to me, im not planning to speak/see anyone of my own server for that moment.
I would like to see the popup that tells me that im in the overflow having a button i can click saying i dont want to be queued for my own instance. So people that are in the queue waiting to go to LA to see their friends have a shorter waiting time and it saves me to have another (sometimes annoying) popup where i can choose to travel or not.