once you drop 3 rams at gate and 2 of them get built, it gets really hard to build the middle one because priority for F key is use over build. so the typical situation is that outer ones get build first because they are easier to target and the inner one usually stays inbuilt until gate gets opened. i know there is option to press ctrl to target rams but that is also almost impossible while there are 10+ melees facerubbing the gate.
solution would be to make build priority over use, once the built rams are already being used, or priority of build over use all in all.
other solution would be to make ctrl targeting building siege easier by making the icon pop up over player names/bodies.
ty for listening.