So lately I’ve been seeing a very particular trend on the LFG; I’ll explain what I mean with examples:
- Doing fractal dailies, that day it was Mai Trin, Aether and Swamp I think. I go into LFG and join a team titled exactly “T4 Meta’s 1 DRUID 4 NECROS ONLY”. We go into Fractal 100 and dude start stacking and taking a lil bit of agony damage from the asura champion. Then my other teammates ask how much AR he has, and turns out it’s 145. They them proceed to say “rip” and vote kick soon after he types “Well I’m gonna pull out a tears of alba and the singularity will give enough AR anyway”. We die not long after and I leave without saying a word. Nothing big, that happens when you pug, so I join another one with a more friendly “T4 meta’s everyone welcome” title and casually run through (kinda slowly even) my dailies. After I’m done, out of curiosity I go back to LFG, and what do I see? Those same players, with a party of 4 now, “T4 Meta’s NECRO ONLY EXP”. Huh, I guess they got unlucky with so many bad players joining their experiencied group.
- Another day, I’m done with the other 2 dailies (uncat and something else, no matter) and only swamp left. So I join a team asking “77 be exp”, well ain’t that my lucky day that I was in another condi meta team with a druid and 4 necros, we’re gonna steamroll this. Since everyone is exp they clumsily claimed “well we must get ready for wisps at 25%” and jump right into the boss. 4 wipes later and a lot of 2 guys fighting over not dodging/not ressing, we get to 25% and are not able to get wisps in time. Bloomhunger sends us back to oblivion, resets, and I leave without saying a word. Well such is life pugging, so I simply hop up on another group and do swamp alongside 2 mesmers, a druid and a necro. Run is so smooth I end up redoing the other 2 with them, no one asked anyone else about being experienced but we all spontaneously dropped personal waypoints to wisps we would get at 25%, and everyone kinda already had traited for survival except for one guy that was no hassle ressing here and there during there fight. I finish the dailies and go to LFG to get the fractal pages, lo and behold, there was one of the guys from previous run “77 EXP ONLY DODGE PLS” all that time.
What I mean by these (and there’s like hundreds more like the ones above I remember of) is not a complaint that I can’t find teams to do the content with (I clearly can and do, it’s no hassle and I’m not being unfairly kicked or anything), neither is it a demand that people take in someone who has no AR or no experience to a T4 fractal run. What I want here is to give a suggestion to those struggling to find groups who are likewise experienced and want a smooth fractal/raid run like they do. Perhaps “LFG EXP ONLY NO NOOBS DODGE OR KICK” is not the best way to go about it. Perhaps you’re only hindering yourself because you’re looking for perfect scoring players, when it would be even faster to just go through the content with laidback ones instead of spending so much time looking.
Asking that people meet prerequisites is a double edged blade: if you’re not flexible, you will get to join people who are just as (or even less) inflexible as you are being, and there is a high chance you will end up fighting yourselves instead of understanding each other’s shortcomings and actually joining forces, no matter how good you think you are. I find it very ironic that, after pugging for years (even before the LFG feature came in, back when dungeons were the bomb), I statistically obtain much better results from laidback teams who take almost anyone in, than when I join the so called experienced farmers who spend a half hour trying to find their soulmates on LFG. So, maybe take some time to look at your own attitude to see if there’s room for more tolerance (which does not mean taking in people who are clearly not ready for the content, but you can talk to them instead of cursing!), and I promise your experience, if it’s not very good currently, will become much better.