I am punished for being social
I spam a tutorial service like mad in Queensdale and have never been hit by chat suppression. It’s REALLY easy to get around it by just varying how you word your message, and communicating with your group between sending LFG messages.
Cross server dungeon finder doesn’t mesh well with many of the nigh impossible to pug dungeon paths. Pugging TA anything but Up is hell, and up still breaks pug groups more often than not. All of CoE is impossible to pug, etc, etc.
Joining friends server needs to be up asap though.