My Life is Better, Thanks to YOU!

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Posted by: Bones.5730

Bones.5730

I am 53 years young. I have a condition called Spinal Stenosis (basically a thinning of the spinal column causing nerve compression. If you have ever had sciatica, or a pinched nerve, its like that but hurts much worse and never gets better). I take a extremely large amount of pain killers, the kind usually reserved for Cancer patients, Fentanyl and the like. This medicine only works so well and is really dangerous. My quality of life isn’t great, but there are MANY people in worse shape then me. But pain is an equal opportunity oppressor, and usually takes over your life if you let it.

Ever since I started playing GW2, throwing myself into the game, I noticed my pain less frequently and with that, taking less narcotics. Less narcotics is always good, less chance of accidently dying is always good.

It is all about this game, and this community.

IT’S YOU!!!! The people, the community. It is YOU that make GW2 great. While I interact with people rarely, every single time, and I mean this literally (used correctly), they have always helped, been generous with their time and knowledge. How amazing is that? It is YOU people that keep me going, YOU that fill my hours with a little bit of joy where there was despair, happiness where there was sadness, laughter when there was crying, and even if its just for a little while, I forget about the pain that is trying its best, to crush the life out of me.

So, next time you help someone, say a kind word, or take a second out of your day to just be kind or to help a fellow player, to you it may seem like a small thing. BUT, to people like me, and I know this sounds like hyperbole, you can literally change their life for the better. How often can you say TODAY, I made someones life better? I am proof that you can.

To all the employees who made/make Guild Wars 2, from the support people to the CEO, Thank You!! Your game has made my life better, I know its not part of the game design, but it is one heck of a BUG.

To YOU the Players, a community I am so, so proud to be a part of, you have made living my life a little easier, from my heart, I thank you.

From Myself, My Wife and Family, including Frosty the Dog…

THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!!

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Posted by: Amaimon.7823

Amaimon.7823

Always glad to read some uplifting stories here. So much negativity on the forums, so believe me when I say thank you as well

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Posted by: Ashantara.8731

Ashantara.8731

Always glad to read some uplifting stories here. So much negativity on the forums, so believe me when I say thank you as well

+1

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Posted by: Esquilax.3491

Esquilax.3491

The community is the best part of this game. I rarely see any hyper negative or “toxic” players, but I think that’s due to how Anet engineered the game so all the acessable, puggable content is full of happy chappys and the serious bunch still have their guild runs and efficiency groups.

Merry Winters Veil and good luck in your adventures in Tyria!

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Posted by: Vayne.8563

Vayne.8563

I suffer from chronic pain, and I agree distraction is a fantastic thing. Glad you’re getting some relief, even if it’s not actually relief. Believe me I get it.

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Posted by: Orpheal.8263

Orpheal.8263

I suffer from chronic pain, and I agree distraction is a fantastic thing. Glad you’re getting some relief, even if it’s not actually relief. Believe me I get it.

Just wanted to say that what I’ve bolded as well. It surely not has anything to do with us per se.
It just comes only from the distraction and fun you have with the game, because while you play the game, you stop thinking about the pain and when you stop completely about thinking the pain (its some kind of phenomenon), then the pain will be lesser for somebody, to even the point, that you can completely ignore it, because you are in that moment so fixated on the game with that you have fun, that you could completely forget everything around you as long you are focused so much on the game.

Thats the reason, why people can even forget completely to eat and drink something, while they play.
But you need to be cautious.. this can quickly become some kind of Online ADDICTION to the point, that you play more and more and forget everything around yourself, because of the game becoming more and more your “pain free time”.
Don’t see this please as a hyberbole, it is just a good meant advise.

Thats something that always has to be taken serious. because those “pain killers” are nothing but drugs that surpress the pain for you.
Drugs from which you can become addicted to, same as much as like people can become addicted from playing games…especially when they are used as replacement for something else that has been used earlier to get a certain “effect” out of them.

Sure is, the game will be definetely healthier for you and your body, but take it just as a little warning – never underestimate the influence from Online Games.
They maybe make not physically addicted, but definetely mentally if you use them as some kind of permanent medicine replacement, once you maybe start to believe, that you “need to play” to feel no pains anymore.

Thats the moment where you should stop and should reduce playing, because a game will never replace real medicine. The distraction and the joy that comes from playing the game, is just a positive side effect from the sense of pleasure that you feel while playing, which helps in surpressing the pains.

Its nice to see when games can help people get somehow better through their lives, but to glorify them as kind of “live savers” wouldn’t be right now, because with them you can jump quicker from the frying pan into the fire, than you like, without even noticing it eventually.

Because people just don’t realize it in most cases by themself when they are addicted to something, they see their behavior always on as “being normal”, unless somebody else points them on their abnormal behaviour to bring them to realize it, which is why many people need for this therapies.

Pain can drive people quickly into depressions, what makes people also easier receptive for all kinds of addictions to get relief somehow from the pain – be it drugs, alcohol, games and other types of good distractions that can completely fascinate them to the point, that that start to forget other things so that they have more time for what fascinates them at the moment.

Why do I write all this, some may ask now?
Simple – to eventually prevent others to go through, what I have gone through.
I was addicted to GW2, due to depressions (which is just a mental pain) – played the game nearly daily for quite a long time, forgot to eat and to drink, because the game just distracted me so much from my depression, that I can say today luckily only that I have oversaturated myself last years wintersday with it to realize my problem self when I grinded for Winters Presence – that my behaviour has become totally abnormal – since then I’m inactive in the game and starting the game just gives me a feeling of disgust now, despite a small part in me still wanting to play it.

For me it was just the right decision to make a break from the game at that time, or I don’t know, where I would be now.

Personally I like the idea behind sub classes ~ quoted from Chris Whiteside

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Posted by: Vayne.8563

Vayne.8563

@Orpheal, I appreciate the advice, but I’m not addicted to the game. Or rather, I’m not particularly addicted to any one thing. Whatever I’m doing at any given time, that’s what I’m doing. When I was writing, I did nothing but write. When I’m into a TV series, I binge watch the whole thing.

One guy I know called in the manic defense. You keep your mind so busy you don’t have time to think about anything. I’ve done it long before Guild Wars 2 existed, and I don’t really see it stopping any time soon.

But I still get all the stuff done I need to do in life, so it’s not an issue for me. Still, I appreciate the advice.

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Posted by: Silvatar.5379

Silvatar.5379

Last year I suffered multiple back injuries resulting in sciatica-like pain that incapacitated me to the point where I could not even stand at times and was only able to sleep maybe 1 to 2 hours a night at the most for months at a time. Obviously, It was the physio-therapy that got me better, but it was GW2 that got me through the excruciating pain each day and night so yeah, I owe a big thanks to GW2 as well

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Posted by: Donari.5237

Donari.5237

Cheers to you, Bones, for finding a positive way to cope with the pain. I’ve been lucky enough so far to avoid unfixable chronic pain, but during bouts of it (other than headaches, where computer screens don’t help) the game really does help.

Not just physical pain. One huge source of sanity for me during my time as a public defender was to dive into MMOs and RPing in MMOs, LARPs and tabletop. It’s like a mental vacation, to just go be someone else in another place and time and completely forget your day job exists.

Orpheal is right that games can become an addiction. For the most part, however, the escape they offer is a far greater reward than the very small risk of losing track of RL needs. So keep on gaming, keep on finding the distraction and fun that lets you mind-over-matter what ails you.

Here’s hoping medical science finds a way to fix your spine. Until then, merry gaming to you!