Look, the key to it all is simply psychological. Everyone thinks the MMO they first played is “the best MMO ever”, because it’s the game in which they first felt an amazing magical feeling of being in a virtual world with thousands of other players.
But the sad and unfortunate fact of the matter is that you can only experience that feeling of magical discovery once. Right now, there are probably a few tens of thousands of players who are feeling that feeling with GW2 right now. But there are many more tens of thousands of players for whom this isn’t their first rodeo, so they’re constantly comparing GW2 with their “first love”.
For me that was City of Heroes – in my mind, no MMO could possibly compete with CoH when I first played it, it was probably the best gaming experience of my whole life, and I’ll never feel that intensity and “magic” again.
For others, their first MMO was UO, or EQ, or SWG, or EVE Online, or WoW, etc., etc., etc.
So naturally, when you compare every game that comes after your “first love” with subsequent games, they all do things slightly differently. The paradox is, that you want a game that does things different from your first love (because you’re probably burnt out on that style of gameplay) but at the same time you want the gameplay to be the same, but better and with different skins (because that’s what you’re familiar and cozy with).
But you’ll never get that “magic” back. Not quite, not in its full form, just as echoes.
I think 90% of arguments on MMO forums are the result of this syndrome, and this unfortunate fact: you will never feel the “magic” again, but you keep chasing it, and you kitten to hell any MMO that doesn’t provide it. But no MMO ever will.
Just be happy that others are experiencing that “magic” right now, in whatever MMO they’re playing for the first time, and be content with the slight return of that “magical” feeling you can get either when playing a new MMO, or returning to one you’ve liked before.
GW2 has, I believe, been designed with this in mind. It’s an MMO for first time players, obviously, but also for people who are burnt out on MMOs, but still want to have a game they can come back to now and again to have an echo of that “magic” feeling.
The thing to remember about GW2 is that you aren’t forced to play it continuously because you’ve paid a subscription. If something you want has been promised, but isn’t in the game yet, leave it for a while and come back when it comes.
Chill, relax, take it easy, it’s just a game. For my part, I’m in love with GW2 all over again, for about the third time after coming back after a break. Is that bad? Is that not how an MMO is “supposed” to be? I don’t care, all I know is that the game is here for me when I have a hankering for it, and each time I come back there are some new things, and each time I come back I fall in love with its charm all over again.
(edited by gurugeorge.9857)

