Guild Wars 2

i knew the game cursor has some issues for being to small or too similar to game colors
specially in big groups like raids but didnt really noticed it myself
i jsut got new monitor, bigger than my old one, the cursor is TINY
cant even see it

and really i dont want use 3rd party unknonwn software to change my cursor
any ideas?

By 3rd party software, I assume you mean YOLO mouse. AFAIK it’s legit in Anet’s eyes.

Only other way around your problem is reducing the resolution in your graphics settings.