Q:
I fail to decide on the server
A:
I’m on Piken Square, and there’s generally a good community. It is the unofficial Roleplaying Server as well, so you will also encounter IC conversations in the world at times, particularly in Divinity’s Reach. (Though of course not everyone is a RPer, and no one is going to mind if you don’t want to join in!)
In terms of population, things have settled down a lot now, and I tend to only see overflows in major cities at peak times such as Saturday nights. I also seldom have to queue for WvW, and when I do, it isn’t so long a wait.
Unofficial RP server as well! You made my decision for me. Thank for your positive feedback. :-)
There are plenty of EU English servers to choose from.
I play on Gunnar’s Hold and all the chat I have seen is in English, and it seems to be a friendly place to play.