Looking for New Server (EU preferably)
You care about winning (this is a bad thing).
So your only choice is SFR. All the other servers prefer to play for fun and not care about the score because it doesn’t actually matter.
I would say come to Ring of FIre, but hey you are from RoS so that means only SFR is good for you.
If you and your friends end up being willing to hop across the pond (which you mention as a possibility) then I would recommend Tarnished Coast.
The server holds a competitive spot in Tier 1 NA, plus we have guilds and players from all different time zones and parts of the world. Commanders are easy to find, and more often than not are hanging out in the TC voice chat.
I have a large number of European members in my guild, and no one has ever reported any unusual problems with latency.
We can also boast having easily the friendliest and most inclusive attitude amongst all the upper tier servers.
Feel free to have a look around http://forthetoast.com/ for more info, or contact any of our server representatives listed in our server recruitment thread here: https://forum-en.gw2archive.eu/forum/wuv/recruitment/Tarnished-Coast-Welcome-to-your-new-server/first
All the good GvG guilds are going to T2 NA, if they are not already there.. There is no lag difference between NA or EU, so if you’re considering a new server, go to T2 NA. That’s the future of WvW.