Guild Wars 2

Hey,
My ingame name is The Hooded Hunter
Over my time playing Guild Wars 2 i have captured Stonemist 3times!
All of those times i have not recieved compensation (the xp, karma, money etc)

All of those times i have killed many kains/fergs and the keep lord. I have rezzed teammates endlessly and have hardly been knocked off my feet. SO how is it someone who charged in and went down and was defeated, got credit for lying there unconcious in the circle while i got nothing?

Can someone explain this to me
(Also i cant see commander symbols on the map)

happened to me a few times too, but in towers and keeps