Q:
Gear attributes priority
What made you think you made the wrong choices?
I choose exactly the same type of items as you, but I put more emphasis on the condition damage over power. Of course if you take too much beating, you can always try to mix some toughness and vitality, but personally I don’t feel the need to get those stats at all.
If you feel weak or underperfoming, my suggestion is to change your traits into a more balanced mix of curses and blood magic with emphasis on curses.
You also use a lot of wells, therefore I would suggest changing axe+focus for a staff, because marks combo with wells. Investment in Curses trait line would also help you as you get targeted wells.
Plus, my personal thought – I just dont like flesh golem. I roll with Plague elite, as it basically gives you third life bar and is super useful in AOE-multiple foe combat.