Hi,
I play necromancer. I have played necromancer since BWE #2. Before necro I played guardian. I’ve over 800 S/TPvP matches as necro and I simply state that as a marker of credibility — or short to say, I’ve invested time in the class.
To the meat of the matter:
Spite: 0
Curses: 20 (III*, IV*)
Death Magic: 20 (II*, VI*)
Blood Magic: 0
Soul Reaping: 30 (II, X, XII)
The key to the build – mash DS every time it is up and will be useful — know when it will be most useful ( ala knowing that the next time you DS that enfeeble will go off because the tooltip still does not disclose a 15s internal cd and that warrior is going to charge in and you need the -condition on ds + weakness from the enfeeble). And then micromanage every other cooldown (this is really important).
I run Dagger/Focus + Staff. I typically enjoy Sigil of Fire/Bloodlust on dagger/focus and usually Fire on staff. I push 60% crit nigh 100% of the time (15pt curses, 5s fury on DS, ds on 5s cd from XII in soul reaping). Runes are whatever fits your fancy ( I like divinity for overall balance but it isnt my go-to).
Berserker/Rampager/Knight amulets all work for me and it depends on my mood (do I want to be a little more bursty or tanky).
I personally feel this build is versatile within the playstyle (in your face aggressive pressure with situational bunker) with options for utility loadouts — I run either full wells or mix it up with some mobility or skirmisher utilities. And as for the elite, Plagueform but if I am going tandem with one of my buddies we may go dual golem charge. Yeah, that ain’t falco.
*edited to help folks understand the trait allocation