I need some Help to fit the tank/control
Personally, if going for a tank-Rev, I’d build Jalis/Ventari with a focus on self-healing and damage reduction. For weapons I would suggest sword/sword for increased control through chill and the skill 5, alongside blocks and UA for survival. Alongside that I’d take a staff, since it allows for a decent amount of non-ventari healing and some pretty nifty blinds, weakness and pushing people around.
and what gear would u run with it?
Well, I can see quite a few sets fitting that build. The first few to come to mind however are Forsaken gear for some damage alongside the defence, Nomad’s gear for incredible defence and healing (which can also put out great supporting heals, thanks to Salvation), or just good ol’ Snowflake gear for extra boon duration alongside the defence.
As for sigils, I’d leave that mostly up to your personal preferences. A couple of good ones would be Sigil of Purity for extra condi cleanse, Sigil of Endurance for more frequent dodging, or even Superior Sigil of Momentum for some lovely stacks of toughness when you cleave through mobs.