Anyone else Peeved?
Sounds like need to get good or run pistol/ dagger with full dire and be condi thief or you need new class go with pu Mesmer. The days of the power thief are over you cry about all you want or change your play style.
There are alternatives to D/P. I run D/D and S/D quite a bit to switch things up. I recently started using poisons as well. Thief is set up pretty well for bleeds and poisons. You can still CnD and Backstab for great amounts. The mobility that S/D and Shortbow provide helps out quite a bit. They did nerf our condition control quite a bit though, so going up against the pu Mes and Ele will likely end in a 2 second melt on your part. It all depends on the skill of the opponent. I have beaten slightly more than I have been killed by, but not by much. Condi removal in stealth helps, though it no longer clears roots; shadowstep can be your friend there, or in a pinch, Infiltrator’s Arrow to create space.
D/D is still a tricky beast. Your mobility is reduced and you can drain your initiative quickly if you aren’t careful. I will admit that I was pretty angry with the new changes to Mesmer and the seeming lack of love for Thieves in the recent updates, but we will adapt. Since the update, I ended up dumping Deadly Arts and picking up Trickery, it helps with the extra healing and initiative. I stick with my Traveller’s Runes so I am not wasting a utility slot for run speed.
I am far from the best thief out there, and I share your frustration, but we are all about adaptation. Hope this helps.