(edited by MadMossy.8715)
Mail needs confirmation!
Think before you click send.
At the very least there should be a confirmation for every mail, or they should disable/allow toggle of the “feature” that sends mail to the closest person to you. I was trying to send a bunch of crafting mats to a friend and lost hundreds of ore because even though I entered his name, after adding additional items to the mail it changed it back to the closest person to me. After submitting a ticket it seems there is no resolution to this issue.
I’ll agree that this system seems wonky and needs to be tweaked.