Guild Wars 2

Wife and I keep getting split tonight going into zones/instances/whatever you call map areas.
No option on the portraits to join one another.
Teleport out, jump back: still split, no option to move to each others’ instance.
It was close to the hour mark, so I think one of the world bosses was spawning, which might be a contributor, but why overflow us individually?

How are we supposed to get into the same place? I thought this brilliant new system had that all figured out? (surprise! It apparently doesn’t).
Why is there no indication where we are or how to get to one another like, gee, Guild Wars One?
Why do you possibly think we should be wasting our few gaming hours on a week night trying to figure out something as basic as playing together in an MMO?

Just another day in paradise with this game since patch; I hate the megaservers. I miss my home server, seeing names and guilds I recognize, and I regret wasting my playtime tonight separated from my party.
I hope the devs realize there may be some bugs (and drawbacks) to this new system, and might comment one way (will fix) or the other (working as intended, we should play something else).

— Mate