Very, very frustrated with volume of players in zones.
I have the opposite issue. There are too many players, swarming events just like in Rift, and ruining any possibility of challenge or fun.
I suppose this is a balancing issue of sorts, but not sure how they’d solve it.
I’m still 20 or lower on my toons, I suspect you are higher.
You might want to do a server transfer, look for a server that has High population at the time that you play most.