there is 2 things to be said here:
first off, if a team loses 100-500 it is in 99% of the cases not the fault of a single player. sometimes the matchmaking system is cruel and will put a group of people all below rank 20 up against a group of rank 40+s. those things happen and you just have to get over it. nobody has a 100% win rate. in fact, you are supposed to lose 50% of your matches, unless you are playing with an extremely good premade team. if people lose, they tend to find a scapegoat, and that scapegoat is obviously never themselves. it is an awful human habit but sadly you can’t really do anything about it. you just have to “learn to lose”.
the second thing is the “verbal abuse”, be it from your own team or from your opponents. i personally report almost anyone who insults me verbally. freedom of speech and all that is fine and good, but it stops right there were you limit the freedom of others, by invading their personal space and call them names. i will personally never understand how people who are obviously good at the game (read: better than you, who is not as experienced) can insult others and feel good about that. i am rank 37 now (which isn’t even really high) and if i have learned one thing from the many years that i have played various competitive games, it is humility. everyone has been a newbie at some point, there is nothing wrong with it, it is a natural process, and only by making mistakes and reflecting about those mistakes and learning from them, can a person become a better player. people who insult others are toxic to the community, they are the reason that people lose interest in pvp and therefore less people play it over time. if everyone would offer constructive help instead of insulting others, not only would that motivate the less experienced players to play more and improve, it would also make the entire atmosphere in the pvp environment more convenient.
