Guild Wars 2

Carl Jung said, life is a journey toward true self, whether masculine or feminine at the outset of life we should also embrace our anima (which is the opposite) on the road to androgyny where our true self is, neither male or female, true self accepts the whole of which we are.
If you have difficulty playing a pixelated character of either gender for any reason, you might consider seeking professional help.
Playing over 45 characters, one of each class and race, I do not find myself so immersed into which gender I rolled but the skills and utilities I have.
Guild Wars and Guild Wars 2 are not dating sites and anyone that hits me up is probably a little deranged to begin with, those players are the ones that I would be seriously worried about their mental health and devious intent.

I rather like the light show players adorn themselves with, especially in WvW you can see a glittering adversary from 6000 down range, and if players wish to play with visually intense auras and overdone armors I say go for it. Personally, I play very subdued earth tones, always on lookout for dyes that mimic my surroundings. No light show for me thank you very much, my favorite staff is Bo, and my favorite great sword is reskinned to Belinda’s, you won’t find me flashing around looking like a Christmas tree ornament, I’ll leave that to the players with less common sense.