Im not sure what build and role you try to play. Some classes or builds arent ideal for 1v1s. And im asuming thats what this rant is about; random MMs that 1v1 you. On my full glass ranger (see pic below in case you dont believe i play that) i never try to 1v1 necros either. I just snipe them from far and kill them within seconds from a mile away.
In this game its very important to play to your strengths and to know your limitations. Dont get frustrated if you lose 1v1 to a guy that is build to 1v1 you on point. And dont afk and kitten your teammates because you lose a 1v1. No matter what you play, there will always be a build or class you struggle against….does that mean you will always afk? If so id recommend sticking to wvw blobbing or PvE.
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can drop me a build link on PM? i like the glass+owl combo, would be interested
(cant write priv msg es till 2days..) sry for /offtopic