But what if they don’t want a civil union? A civil union doesn’t include all the rights that a normal marriage does. I think it’s kind of selfish to tell someone they can’t have a marriage because it’s against your beliefs. Two gay guys wanting to get married literally has no effects on you. None.
Trust me, you are far from being persecuted. ANet is allowing you to post on this forums, to play their game, and by golly as a Christian you have more power than those who you claim to be oppressing you. Does it not occur to you that LGBTQ+ people have been persecuted by almost everyone since…forever? In some countries, you get imprisoned or stoned to death just for loving the opposite sex. That’s persecution. Having people disagree with your beliefs and feeling offended is not.
You believe what you want, I’m just pointing out your religion doesn’t get to dictate the government or how people want to live their lives.
Okay, let me clarify this before we go too deep here. This may be a language/ country problem.
When I say civil union I mean the exact same thing a straight couple does if they are no religious and go to church to get a religious marriage.
I only ask that you do not force churches to make same sex union if the religion does not allow it. On the civil side, full equal treatment – meaning full equal rights of the union, whatever the most complete type of civil union civil “marriage” you get in your country.
Hope this clears the discussion, because I think we might be supporting the same thing, but the language barrier is keeping the message from getting across.
It’s the word “marriage” that you seem to have quarrel with. I understand that from your point of view it is strictly a religious term and ritual, but according to the government and society at large, it is not. I’m married, and got married at a court house, as we are not a religious family. We did not have a civil union, as we wanted there to be no doubt in anyone’s mind, be it people we meet or organizations we become a part of that we are joined wholly.
I don’t think you seem like a bad person or that you are trying to harm anyone, but I do think that it’s a bit disingenuous to call someone your close friend, but in the same breath say you do not want them to have the same rights as you. I can’t imagine trying to maintain a friendship like that. I know people that I’m friendly with that I see on a regular basis, but would not call my friend because I disagree with something or other about them or their lives. It does not mean I hate them. I think this is really the kind of relationship you describe.
I don’t think religious institutions should be forced to marry anyone against the wishes of its leadership, precepts, congregation, or what have you. I do think that anyone deserves the have the right to marry whomever they please, within the confines of the law.
As stated before, separate but equal is not equal. Obviously what we call marriage matters, or we would not be having this discussion. How would you feel if you were defending your right to a have a “Christian” marriage?