Has PvP always attracted a lot of abrasive hostile mean people?
So I had done a little bit of PvP in the past. But then with this new update I was enticed by the reward tracks so I decided I would like to really get into PvP. So I started playing in the custom arenas with my thief. I designed my own build and experimented with traits and skills till I found something that seemed effective and I enjoyed playing.
Once I got comfortable with PvP play and felt like I was winning more skirmishes than I was loosing I decided to try the solo arenas. I really liked it and had been having a lot of fun. I was about 75 percent through the Balthazar reward track and had been doing pretty good in solo arenas. When I looked at my PvP tab to see my stats I had played 21 solo arena matches and had won 14 of them. So I was feeling pretty good, like I was starting to know what I was doing and was contributing to my teams wins.
So this is where I was upon entering a solo arena match last night. I started the match by running to their home capture point. I ended up in a skirmish with a thief, we battled for quite a while, shadowstepping around and fighting. He eventually killed me and then this guy on our team starts with the insulting. He generally insults everyone our team with some comment like “well that was a great start.” (The other team was up on us about 60 points to 20 points.) Then he hones in on me and just can’t shut up about what an awful thief I am. He is berating my build, insulting me, telling me to please just go back to PvE, and on and on. All I say in reply is that I have been winning lots of matches all day. He responds, “lol, no you havn’t…” And during all this he uses the “sit” emote to demonstrate that he is no longer participating and keeps telling everyone on our team to just let them kill our guild lord to get it over with. Some other guy on our team joins in insulting me and the other teammates and he also refuses to play and sits in the spawn the rest of the match.
Then about two matches later, we end up in a very similar situation where someone on our team gets mad that we aren’t winning (I think the score was approximately 330 to 250 or something) so he proceeds to just stand in the spawn and not help anymore and insult our team the rest of the match.
Then a couple matches later, some other guy just starts insulting everyone (on both teams) about their meta builds, and how everyone using thief, mesmer, or ele is a noob, blah blah blah.
I end up deciding it must be a Saturday night thing. Maybe people have been drinking and they get belligerent.
But then I hop on today cuz I was at 99% on my Balthazar reward track and wanted to finish it up. The first match I’m in, we start a off a little behind (one of those 65 to 20 point scenarios). But then we start to make a comeback. We were within 20 points of the other team in the low 300 score range (something like 310 to 330). Right about then, we had a guardian finish capping the other teams home point and then with no enemies in sight, he proceeds to break the other teams gate and goes in to harass their guild lord. In the process he ties up 3 of their players who go to try and stop him from killing the guild lord. I thought it seemed like a useful distraction. Right then a warrior on our team starts going off about, “guardian, what are you doing?!” And commenting about, “I’m so sick of PvE scrubs.” Then he uses the “sit” emote and sits down and refuses to play; when we were only 20 points behind!!! I can understand giving up when we are 200 points behind. But only 20 points! And we had been making a comeback… He refused to play the rest of the round, just sits and insults his team. We ended up loosing by about about 90 points. We easily could have won if he had continued to play. During his pouting and insulting he makes some comment about how “he plays to win.” We were only 20 points behind when he decided to refuse to contribute anymore!
So my question is this: what the heck is going on? Is PvP full of hostile raging people like this? I just don’t get it. Any advice on how to handle these people/scenarios?
It seems like there is this group of players that want evidence that their team is going to blatantly overpower the opposing team based on the what the score is after the first 60 seconds of the match, if their team is behind at all they refuse to play and start with the insults.
Also, doesn’t solo team arena automatically match you up with teammates that have a similar ranking to you? If these hostile PvP guys who hate “PvE scrubs” are such hardcore PvPers, then why are they being matched up in teams with people like me that have only been PvPing for about a week?