To be fair, making friends can be hard for some people. There’s a psychological term for it, but it escapes me at the moment.
You don’t even have to make friends to get into an organized group’s server. I’m not exactly an outgoing person – I’m not even in a guild on my server. Nothing but a perceived “hassle” is stopping them from hopping on a designated voice chat to ask for an invite, or keeping track of commanders/guilds they see leading frequently, and asking them for a ferry into the correct instance.
I get the impression that “too much of a hassle” for this person is anything that requires more effort than just “log in, waypoint, receive chest.” And to that, I say not everything in every game is meant for everyone. There are plenty of things I will never do (or be able to do) in this game, and you won’t catch me complaining about those things being too far beyond me, so maybe it’s time to accept that Tequatl isn’t meant for every type of player either.
That said, I do believe Tequatl should continue to be as deadly as he is, but scale downwards for fewer players so that smaller servers can have a chance to gather the numbers to tackle him.
