This is a pretty big misconception. Suppose male characters would be consistently be portrayed wearing a cod piece, and not much more. Would you not agree that that is a pretty offensive stereotype? It doesn’t matter if “some” people approve of the stereotype. What matters is that it is an offensive stereotype.
There is a big difference between two genders being depicted differently, and one being depicted in a bad light, while the other is depicted normally. So your comparison really doesn’t apply.
I have a quote to prove you wrong. This quote should also prove why Logan Thackeray is sexualised.
But the problem is the feminist assumption that in case of sexism, women always get the short end of the stick. Like I’ve said before, I’m a gender egalitarian, and assume both genders have it equally bad until proven otherwise. But clearly, male characters don’t walk around with a gigantic sex appeal? That’s debatable, actually. Most male characters are muscular, and per today’s standards, being muscular as a man is a major sex appeal. But muscles clearly don’t make up quite enough for the amount of sex appeal female characters tend to have to endure.
So, with GirlWritesWhat as source for this one, men make up sex appeal differently entirely. While women’s sex appeal is judged on the basis of their physical appearance, men’s sex appeal is largely judged on the basis of their status and abilities. A man in a suit is not attractive because suits are divine to look at, not at all. A man in a suit is attractive because suits indicate wealth. Similarly, muscular men aren’t attractive because muscles are awesome, but because muscles indicate strength, and strength enhances the man’s abilities. Video games know this, and portray men as apt or wealthy as possible, with lesser regard for physical appearance. Therefore, men in video games aren’t completely clad because it protects them better, but because it’s more imposing and gives the illusion of better performance.
Norn men don’t look very attractive if we dress them down into their undies, apart from perhaps their bulks of muscles. What makes norn men attractive is their incredible aptness. Norn men appear unshakable in combat, and like an opponent to fear. They don’t simply “look” attractive, they are attractive through the manner in which they appear to act.
So women are judged solely on physical looks, and men are judged solely on their wealth and aptness. Video games know both of these things, and make women’s bodies sexy and visible, and buff men’s bodies beyond realism, paired with gear that makes them look powerful. Both suffer from sexism in that regard.
Conclusively, “being put in a bad light” is highly subjective.
You also mention that the debate on whether something is sexist is personal opinion. That’s bullkitten. Who taught you that? Sexism is discrimination on the basis of gender. If there is an obvious different treatment of one gender in relation to the other, one may call such sexist. But truthfully, the genders aren’t treated quite so differently when we consider only the ends, and not the means.
And no, women aren’t just portrayed as objects of desire. Are you nuts? GW2 has enough women who are portrayed as individual characters who have nothing sexualised about them. Which is great! But sexualisation isn’t forbidden. It’s still a valid tool for making a female character, much like it’s valid to sexualise male characters. Men – and I’ll stress this again – are sexualised through different means entirely, though.
You also claim you defend the side of women, and that was my point entirely. There is no such thing as a unified female opinion. Women have individualised, so shared interest on the basis of gender simply doesn’t exist anymore.