I think there are many generalizations, but from my own experience there are certainly reasons why people can get very frustrated— it’s where they toss their frustration on. When things go south, fingers get pointed, and oftentimes the echo chamber is going to find someone outside of the circle to blame. When your attack fails because 12 pugs sit around with 96 supply and nothing builds. When people run up to the lord’s room to run up and tag the lord, endangering the entire group, it’s very hard to really have sympathy if say, I suggest to throw them to the wolves.
And to be honest, if you’re being dead weight, then you have to reconsider why you are here. However, it’s not just the pugs. It’s also bad habits and other things from even so called veteran hardcore players.
But unfortunately, that leaves collateral damage. Once, I got angry at someone for placing a trebuchet against a wall, because I thought we were being trolled without thinking that they didn’t know any better within even considering the possibility that they could just be new.
To add on to matters, the overall state of WvW has caused increased stress to anyone that still takes it seriously for whatever reason, and thus the patience gets lower and lower to the point where people can only turn to people they trust.
Consider what a pugmander might have to deal with:
- People not cooperating with tag, not on coms.
- Backseat Driving, especially by zerglings
- People not knowing what to do, and then getting upset when things go wrong
- People fairweathering/are only here for the ride
- Terrible info/misleading scouting. “inc” for lone enemies, etc.
- In addition to the above:
“X is under attack”
“How many, and who?
/silence for 10 minutes
“HURRY UP CAP CIRCLE IS UP”
/10 seconds later
“#$%$#^$! go karma train and whatever!” - Or, redirecting a zerg to stop 1 person from taking a camp.
- People demanding you tag despite the fact you might want to take the break. Don’t do it? The map becomes unqueued.
On our server, there’s a not so unsubstantiated sentiment that pugs have been spoiled rotten by some very good commanders and simply won’t learn how to fend for themselves. In any case, it’s quite a disaster on reset night now due to this degradation of the situation with pugs and more organized folks. Though to be fair, this may apply to the game in general, as zerg content ensues that the skill required to function in this game is very low and one can hide behind a zerg and pretend to be good. Then you remember people complaining about HoT maps….
Consider what a Guild Group might have to deal with:
- Getting ordered around just because you are on the map when you may have your own agenda.
- People that think you’re violating their game mode.
- Random people following you, and imposing whatever.
- Being blamed or targeted when you decide to take it easy.
- On my server… wait, never mind.
Now, on the other hand, consider what a pug might have to deal with,
- Being told to get off siege if they don’t have the right mastery, so they learn to never do it if so…. and then comes the time when nobody uses the siege at all. Cue rage.
- /insert bashing because of class.
- Being called out for a mistake in a rude fashion, often by people that really aren’t that much better. Especially juicy when I note them having to be ress’d 5 times every fight.
- Commanders thinking you are psychic and then berating you when yes, your backline is CC’d and you knowingly jumped in there alone. Not a problem for cool bros like me that pop renewed focus and then talk about how I outlast the entire zerg… wait whoops.
- Commanders not realizing you’re omnipotent. So, mesmers only got 3 utility slots and yes that veil has a really long cooldown. Also, yes it’s possible for water to be on cooldown.
- Being called a PvE’r. Is like people are too insecure they’re not considered epshots that they have to find pve’rs to belittle.
- On the off chance someone wants to get better, they get belittled and mocked if they ask a “stupid question”
- On my server, pugs have the extra challenge of being demanded to be on coms only to find out that either the info isn’t given or the channels are empty anyways.
In any case, it’s very easy to get narcissistic and ignore the people that have helped you without you knowing it. Yea, it’s easy to mock that dude refreshing siege and sitting on that cannon for 5 hours straight, but maybe without ‘em you’d be in tier tumbleweed by now. In the end, people just need to realize everyone has their own agenda and dreams, and work accordingly— at the very least tolerate people that aren’t in your echo chamber.
for there you have been and there you will long to return.
(edited by ArchonWing.9480)