Victim of #3 recently so I can corroborate that it happens.
We seem to be having trouble keeping our northern supply camp and left side tower but are dying for supply on the right side tower. Then, the zerg is coming in to take supply for their siege consistently.
I go to a supply camp and someone talks about upgrading it.
They start saying they only have 40s and someone else says they will do it.
That person didn’t but ran off.
The other person then petitions and gets someone to upgrade it and then I got enlivened by their attempts and put up siege to help protect it. I think they even bought a few upgrades themselves. Both of us were fairly broke but team effort and server pride let us at least “try”.
This was the only supply camp we held on the entire map, surely people will protect it, I thought. Surely they recognize the value of it and since it’s upgraded it is worth keeping plus it’s right near our only waypoint so bonus.
Then a new build hits after we build the siege.
People return and a new commander pops in that wasn’t there previously.
I was excited to see that the siege and upgrades lasted so I stay at the camp and protect it. Others come and go but the zerg gets on a rampage. I’m calling out when the supply camp is under attack and people seem to respond but in small numbers. The commander asks it each time they see swords and ask status of it.
Someone calls incoming on the supply camp and it’s large. The zerg does not respond and continues taking their tower.
I put in map chat that the camp was taken and that I think it was a waste to spend that much money on siege and I wouldn’t be doing it again.
All of a sudden the commander starts asking us to stop “demoralizing” the chat and keep that in map. Us is pretty much me since I was the only one commenting on it.
So ok, it was fine for me to give them status updates before they went on their mission. When we call out that it needs defense, they don’t come. But I’m demoralizing by calling it out, poppykitten. Anyway, we had our words and they started smarting off asking what guild I’m in – whadya’ gonna tell on me lol (kept that to myself, didn’t say it but oh how I was thinking it) until finally they said that IIIIIIIIIIIIIII wasn’t good for the server and that I would go on ignore.
Yes me, that <insert expletive> that wanted to defend something I sunk money into and was trying to protect. Yeah, that’s demoralizing but their mission was wholesome and sound because 10+ ppl followed the blue icon.
Anyway, I gave them my view, you want someone not to say something, expect it in YOUR group, not the /team chat. No captain, some of them believe that /team is theirs because they bought that indicator. I still disagree and I tried to be helpful to them at the start and give them a chance to show proper sportsmanship but it didn’t work. They went for their goals because this was their party and I suppose I was just someone with my nose on the window if my goal wasn’t zerg zerg zerg till the clocks rang 5am.
It does bug me that the only reason they thought that they had any validity to order around what the entirety of the server would do OR SAY was because of that stupid icon. Especially when they “care” about things like morale. yes, sarcasm.
I don’t have ideas on how to deal with that commander tag than I have to get people off of facebook giving out their private info constantly believing that “likes” mean quality or that your life should revolve around how many friends you have that you barely know. Because of some of the egos and the expectations that icon should bring, I admit that I rarely zerg because I don’t want to be their little puppet that they can put in danger and port away – we do have some of those commanders that vanish in the heart of battle saying they “went for supply” mmhmm. Or the ones that ask others to drop siege all the time and get supply. What exactly are you a leader for if you don’t come prepared and you don’t have any flag buffs or incentives. Oh yeah, you bought the big icon for everyone to find you with, that’s it but you want to be a dictator not a true leader.
I’m a senior developer where I work which means part of my job is taking input not just saying, this is what will be done because I proclaim it – all other goals be washed away by my superiority. I have to envision that some of these people have never been a leader in real life and think they know how it’s done, their way.
(edited by psirca.9452)