Vayne,
To answer your question on your original post, I do play like you. I am heavily involved in two different guilds. One is very dungeon/fractals focused and they other is much more PvE and guild focused. I enjoy both very much and love the social aspect of both guilds who have a lot of wonderful people in them. I agreed to be an officer in one of them because I like to help people out with anything. It makes playing for me fun.
As for this…
My mother always said ‘only stupid people get bored, they don’t know how to entertain themselves’.
Your mother was entirely wrong. The higher the intelligence the more the need for external stimulation. This is why there is frequently a link between high natural intelligence and poor behaviour in children at schools. It is also the reason why big cats, elephants, primates etc frequently display pacing behaviour, aggression and self-harm in captivity.
It is also the reason why highly intelligent people are usually not found working in highly repetitive jobs such as assembly line work.
You’ve said some untrue things but this is absolute at the bottom of the barrel. Intelligence doesn’t necessarily need to be spoon fed entertainment. SOME intelligent people can make their own entertainment.
What you’re confusing is something else with intelligence…and that’s drive. Some people are driven but many MANY intelligent people are not. A lot depends on their upbringing, their life experiences, their genes.
My intelligence tests quite high. I’m almost never bored. (and when I say quite high I mean just around the beginning’s of genius level). But I grew up in circumstances where I LEARNED to entertain myself, because when I grew up entertainment wasn’t spoon fed the way it is today. You had to think. Had to use your imagination. Had to figure out how to entertain yourself.
And once you get into that habit, external stimulation,. while nice, isn’t necessary.
And this…
Our playstyles seem to be very similar as I am a roamer too and I enjoy helping others out of tricky situations.
But where I realized we differ is when reading:
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My intelligence tests quite high. I’m almost never bored. (and when I say quite high I mean just around the beginning’s of genius level).
…I could see some form of Irony but from the context it looks like you really mean this.
From that line on who can take you for serious? Looks like a classic case of narcissism here.
I agree with you Vayne and have this to add.
First: I don’t think Vayne was saying he had high intelligence to brag, but to point out that those with high intelligence can entertain themselves. Period. No narcissism at all.
Second: There are many people with ceiling shattering IQ’s who are very stupid. The ability to retain knowledge and test well says nothing about your ability to manage life and social interaction. Conversely, there are just as many that do not have close to genius IQ’s who are more successful and wise than those blowing the IQ tests out of the park. These people are often looked at as vastly intelligent when in actuality they are merely driven, focused, shrewd and savvy. All of which have nothing to do with IQ.
So yes, you can still have a high IQ and be an idiot. I will agree that there are lot of very intelligent people who get bored easily, but as Vayne said, they have never been taught or forced to entertain themselves. Again, IQ does not equal the ability to govern life in a constructive and acceptable way.